Mayan Messages ~ Space for Love
Ben 4 Space for Love
I am Ben 4. Thank you for joining with us today. At this time, we wish to speak further on the subject of love. There is much about being in love on your Earth plane that is misunderstood. When a person falls in love with another, especially “love at first sight,” emotions built on the person’s belief codes are experienced. Most relationships develop rapidly, then go into decline often ending in abuse that leaves each person with more injuries than when they first met. This happens repeatedly until the person comes to an understanding that he is basing his idea of a perfect mate upon a weak foundation. Many are full of judgment yet want partners to love them unconditionally. This will never work. Most want a partner who will promise to never leave them, usually because they are suffering from unhealed wounds when they felt abandoned in their past.
If the person you dream of does exist with all of the parameters that you set, it is likely they will not be attracted to you, unless you also have mastered those parameters. Energetically, like attracts like, therefore you will attract those who are energetically similar to you. This is why so many abused people mate with abusers. The one who continually chooses abusive mates is living from a victim base. Unknowingly, they attract those who have the need to abuse others. Abusers can single out those playing the role of victim in a crowd, like a magnet.
Therefore, if you want a high quality relationship involving true love and mature ways to resolve issues, you will need to create this space within yourself first. Often, couples will meet who have had past life experiences together. There may be a great attraction, a feeling of having met before. Depending on the relationship in the past, these two will have mixed feelings. For example, if they had a good, loving relationship it is likely they will energetically feel this when they meet again. If there was strife, those feelings may arise. We share this to enlighten you; realize that at times you may meet someone that makes your heart flutter because of a past life remembrance. That does not mean this person is the mate for you in this lifetime. Much has changed with each of you since you last met!
Relationships generally fall apart because initially one or both partners were not being authentic when they first met. Both put on their best behavior, acting out roles they thought would attract the other person. Eventually, the role becomes a heavy burden and each begins to revert to their old habits. If these habits are not within the parameters each has set as acceptable, then friction results. At one point, the chasm between their authentic selves becomes too wide and the couples part. How much better would it be to find your authentic self and enter all relationships fully in your integrity? There would be much less divorce, unwanted childbirths and anguish for all who empower themselves in such a manner.
We encourage you to look within and heal the wounds you have allowed to fester. Release negative thoughts and judgments by allowing all to follow their own Paths. Choose habits that are healthy for you. Seek employment that brings you joy. Choose friends and lovers who are compatible with the real you. Many enlightened Lightworkers are not operating within their integrity, not having fully integrated their new belief codes into their daily walk.
If you wish to have healthier relationships, you must begin within. Brush off the cobwebs of negative thinking, clean the windows to let in more light and sweep away unwanted habits. Once you have accomplished this, you will naturally draw people to you who are like-minded. Among those associates, you will have a better chance of finding a suitable mate and loving friends. What we speak is Truth. Try it and see for yourself!
Selamet! Ben 4
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